The Life Of A Dreamer

y Name is Emma and I am a dreamer. I have realized and finally accepted that fact about myself and it certainly took me a while to do both of those things. In an environment of fact-based realists, my view of the world and my future was often frowned upon. And I never understood what was wrong with me. It took me trying to live a life that was expected of me and becoming miserably unhappy to realize that giving up my crazy dreams meant giving up my hope, excitement, drive, and happiness altogether. I realized I'd rather have something so exciting I wanted to work for it day and night, with the slightest chance of achieving it, then I would want something with a safe outcome if that's not what excites me.

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Shamelessly, My Idols.

I believe, in life, you don't have to find but create yourself to be the person you want to be. And to not create a completely new path to go from scratch, it is helpful to observe and analyze people you like and strive for the traits you admire about them. I have found myself being incredibly inspired by peoples talents and way of holding themselves. There is often something about a person that completely fascinates me. Sometimes I can't exactly tell what that is, sometimes I know exactly what it is.

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Meditation Is Going To Change Your Life

What meditation really is, is a genius mind trick, that really should be part of everyone's life and taught in schools and integrated into our day to day routine. (Yes, I really think, it's that great!) But it sadly isn’t. But if you’re here you can consider yourself lucky because you have discovered it. And I promise, if you give it an honest shot then you will notice how good it is for you and not give it up for anything.

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To Accept What You Can't Change

I always wondered, why it's been so difficult for me to move on from things and let them go. I tend to hold on to them and drag them around until I'm exhausted because of it. I am so annoyed at everything that happene, that I have no influence over. Frustrated by the things I can't change. What I've realized is, I'm seriously lacking the skill to accept the things I can't change.

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When Is It Time to Quit A Friendship?

Why is it that with friendships in our life we are so much more tolerant and accepting, then we are with romantic relationships? Just because we can have a lot of them, doesn't mean we should.  We all have those friendships that live from obligatory meet ups and forced, energy consuming conversations, but we don't really get anything out of them. So why do we often drag them along? Maybe we should all have a big spring clearout in the human relations department.

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